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  Roll call of those of us stuck in for our spouse or whos spouse is still in!

  by BU2B in

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  i just wanted to get a feel for how many here have awakened to ttatt but are still carrying on some jw activities to pacify them and keep the peace.

  also trying to hear from those who have left, but whose spouse has stayed in the wt and in the marriage.. for me it comes down to my own mental anguish.

  i am mentally tortured by attending the meetings, yet i feel compelled to because my wife would kill me with her personality if i had her drag 2 small girls by herself there.

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  disposable hero of hypocrisy

  I'm with y'all..

  Still in. In body only. For the missus and a parent. When the parent passes, I reckon I'm out.

  The missus knows I have doubts, the elders know too (long story ) and I'm not ALLOWED to talk to her about them, as that would be looked on as trying to take her faith away. Ridiculous. The thing is, she doesn't seem to WANT to talk about anything spiritual at all. As soon as she does though.......

  I'm viewing meetings as "supporting the missus in her hobby" as if it were a knitting club she was nervous of going to by herself. I think she's getting that message too!

  I feel spineless at times, butI think the long game is worth it for me.
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  A "follow up" meeting?!?!

  by DATA-DOG in

  1. watchtower
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  well, now they want a follow up visit!

  when you tell the elders that you have doubts and they say " its okay, we have had our doubts.

  having doubts is not apostasy.

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  disposable hero of hypocrisy

  Me too guys, bu2b stuckinarut data dog, can we start a club?
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  Goodbye JW net

  by snare&racket in

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  forgive me for indulging in a goodbye but it would feel wrong not to,.

  i hope the discussions and atmosphere here do not change for it is a bubbling brew of doubt, bravery and sincere hunger for answers.

  these are healthy ingrediants for humans and especially for a jehovah's witness.. this forum offers not just the ability to ask without consequence, but it also offers the means to be real.

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  disposable hero of hypocrisy

  Mmnoooo MATRON!

  Three things.

  sad to see you leave

  absolutely overjoyed at your good news

  grateful for your posts and personal assistance.

  Best oluck mate..
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  Why do so many refer to Elders as "window washers"?

  by adjusted knowledge in

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  i know the society is against higher education and the pursuit of careers but in my experience the elders in the various congregations i attended had good careers.

  in fact most had their own businesses.

  thinking back of the boe when i was a teenager this is what they had as a career: two were respected carpenters who owned a construction business, one a high school teacher(he was the po), one sold insurance and was a lawyer, one owned a landscaping business and also hired sisters to clean office buildings and other accounts he had, one was retired, and the last was a janitor for the school board.

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  disposable hero of hypocrisy

  While all the above comments might well be true wherever YOU guys are, here in the UK it's not a nominal or symbolic thing at all. I'm one, 4 of the elders in my cong are, and in my city I would estimate between a quarter and a third of the elders are too.

  It's a real thing here, decent money to be made for little startup investment, with flexible hours. Great for coffee shops, I mean ministry...
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  "New Book" God's Kingdom Rules

  by booker-t in

  1. watchtower
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  i heard that on sat the jws released a new book at the convention god's kingdom rules.

  is it a verse by verse of ezekiel or daniel?

  does it mention the "overlapping generation"?

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  disposable hero of hypocrisy

  Ah, but I speak as an insider!

  So what would happen if I was to say, "I just don't understand why we say the bible students didn't know what was going to happen when THIS old wt shows they were very specific about what they thought was going to occur " incontrovertible right?

  Actually, I just released the inner jw from his apostabox into my mind for a second, and he came up with the argument that" yes, they THOUGHT they knew what was going to happen, but they had it wrong, as we can see in retrospect "

  There's no winning..
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  "New Book" God's Kingdom Rules

  by booker-t in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i heard that on sat the jws released a new book at the convention god's kingdom rules.

  is it a verse by verse of ezekiel or daniel?

  does it mention the "overlapping generation"?

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  disposable hero of hypocrisy

  What dya reckon would happen if one were to call out the society on the above points, using the society's own literature to prove it?

  If it's incontrovertible, what could they say? How could they deny it?
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  Evolution: A Satanic Theory

  by cofty in

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  there is an excellent new article at jehovah's trumpet.... friends, the following article is not about masturbation, oral sex, anal sex, or homosexuality so it may not be appropriate for children.

  please use godly wisdom when deciding if your child is mature enough to consider this material.

  we are going to have a frank discussion about the theory of evolution.... .

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  disposable hero of hypocrisy

  AHaaHaHAaaaAaaaaaAAAaa!!!

  Richard Dawkins.... admits in his book, The Greatest Show On Earth: The Evidence For Evolution that “Genesis … must be said … to be … fact” (pages 29,30,59,82)

  Genius!

  And the comment from Louis somebody or other after the article... HahaaAa!
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  "Thanks for showing an interest" - why I'd rather be completely shunned.

  by Julia Orwell in

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  an old jw friend of mine died on saturday, and i used to be best friends with her jw husband.

  we were close friends for 14 years.

  i was like his daughter.

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  disposable hero of hypocrisy

  Bear in mind also that in grief he may not have worded that as he would if not in grief. That, combined with the conditioning we all received, makes for many a thoughtless comment.. But still..
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  Up Late and Can't Sleep

  by lambsbottom in

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  me and the spouse decided to not go to the dc and it takes place tommorow.

  all our jw friends are headed down there tonight.

  feeling lonely and left out but know this is the right choice.

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  disposable hero of hypocrisy

  Hey tigersuit, welcome!

  And that idea texting ttatt is mint! Maybe even slipping it into a sentence as if predictive text had altered it instead of typing that or twat or something, seeing if they pick up on it....

  Plausible deniability.

  Now where did I learn that trickery from...
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  Just came across this jw comment on the interweb, what do you think?

  by disposable hero of hypocrisy in

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  we are up for a new kind of persecution in the future.

  a new form that was unheard of for us.

  in australia, disfellowshipped and dissasociated are planning on suing jw for emotional and mental hardship for being cast out completely.

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  disposable hero of hypocrisy

  Berry gerry, it was a comment some one put on someone else's Facebook timeline. I'm hesitant to put a link on here as it could possibly be tracked back to me, sorry..